When couples embark on a journey of building a life together, they often bring with them the unspoken rules, values, and expectations shaped by their family systems. The way we approach conflict, express love or even view commitment is deeply influenced by the families we grew up in. In therapy, I often see couples struggle […]
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Working with Layers of Identity in the Therapy Room
Stepping into the therapy room means stepping into a space where all the layers of identity, such as culture, gender, family background, and beliefs, come to the surface. As someone who immigrated to Canada from Pakistan as a young child, I’ve experienced how identity is a unique combination of influences, often combined with challenges and […]
What I Love About IFS:
One therapist’s take on working with Internal Family Systems. The first time Internal Family Systems (IFS) really clicked for me, I was in a practice session at my first IFS training. As the “client,” I encountered a protector part that had been causing me to intellectualize everything rather than allowing me to feel my feelings. […]