Tag: Mental Health

Embracing the Season of Renewal

There’s something about spring that gently tugs at us. A quiet nudge reminding us thatwe, too, are part of nature’s rhythm. After a long winter of hibernation, often bothphysically and mentally, spring brings an invitation to begin again. This season is apowerful opportunity for renewal, self reflection and compassion, and intentional selfcare. Our environment impacts […]

Why Communication Alone Won’t Fix Your Relationship: The Missing Piece

We’ve all heard it: “Communication is the key to a healthy relationship.” And while that’s true, many couples come to therapy frustrated, saying, “We try to talk, but it feels forced. We just don’t understand each other anymore.” Here’s the missing piece: communication thrives when there is emotional intimacy. When partners feel emotionally disconnected, conversations […]

How Your Family Dynamics Shape Your Relationship: Understanding, Respect, and Unity

When couples embark on a journey of building a life together, they often bring with them the unspoken rules, values, and expectations shaped by their family systems. The way we approach conflict, express love or even view commitment is deeply influenced by the families we grew up in. In therapy, I often see couples struggle […]

Working with Layers of Identity in the Therapy Room

Stepping into the therapy room means stepping into a space where all the layers of identity, such as culture, gender, family background, and beliefs, come to the surface. As someone who immigrated to Canada from Pakistan as a young child, I’ve experienced how identity is a unique combination of influences, often combined with challenges and […]

Bringing The Shadows Into The Light

Have you ever started researching a topic and before you know it, you’ve fallen down a rabbit hole and suddenly you’re making connections and seeing things in a different light than ever before? That’s exactly what happened to me after spending the last 4 weeks researching the connection between trauma and shame. We’ve all experienced […]

What I Love About IFS:

One therapist’s take on working with Internal Family Systems. The first time Internal Family Systems (IFS) really clicked for me, I was in a practice session at my first IFS training. As the “client,” I encountered a protector part that had been causing me to intellectualize everything rather than allowing me to feel my feelings. […]